We may try to get closer to reality or to another person, but we are never able to reach them, as there is the wall of the soap-bubble. We are only able to see reality and the other people through the wall of the soap-buble, which is tinted to various colors by our opinions and desires.
According to
humanistic psychology, we have three basic motivational factors that determine
the work of the Ego-dominated mind. One
is the need to belong to somebody, the other is the need of safety, and the
third is the need of appreciation.